my butler cafe experience

I was going to post it as soon as the 'date' over but sometopics came up so it get a sided kkk

literally it is a cafe which feature it's butler as a ehhmmm 'main commodity', so they will serve you the best according to them, and they will do every single thing you request them to do, except one : reveal their true identity *and you might get kicked if you insist about it*.

this culture is came from Japan, so all I knew before butler cafe was established in Japan only, but I'm glad (?) that the butler cafe was held in my hometown kkk, thanks to my friend who made it came true~

so it was one beautiful Sunday : October 21th, 2012
I decided to visit the cafe with my friend,

first thing to do was, choose which butler you desire! aargh it was hard, but the owner madame will guide you, and give a reccomendation to you who would be suite for you

after that you have to choose the menu~
and they will let you in, the butler you've chosen will greet you, and they will take you to your table *with hold your hand, it's embarassing, so glad that I didn't*
unfortunately the electricity on the cafe was off, so it was pretty hot, and you know what the butler was fanning us, in spite of he was getting perspired a lot >///<

after all you will enjoy your date with him, but I was to shy and inexperienced, so I 'share' my date, I mean, one butler for two missy
you'll have a conversation with him, he even will help you eat, HE WILL FEED YOU! OMG *facepalm*
I don't know what more I have to write :3, since the sensation will be different to different people, different girl kkk

just try it! :3 if you live in Surabaya, the next butler cafe will be hold in December 1st, 2012
just check the Facebook Page:

Serviteur Phantom Butler Cafe 

they will provide you with several ending which are:

1. good ending:
you may take a picture with all of the butler and foodman, etc, all you have to do I guess, just make a romance and sassy mood with the butler

2. normal ending:
you may take a picture only with butler who served you, all you have to do is make a friendly mood with the butler

*the reason we got the normal ending might came from our lack in dating experience kkk*

3. bad ending:
if you break the rule *for example ask the butler's identity* they will kick you out!!!

so just decide will you come or not kkk, 

I was dressed up for my date, mwahahaha ;;) >///<

apologetic letter:

dear my future husband I am sorry, I write this with my sincere heart, I am sorry that I visited to butler cafe, I am sorry that I dated some random guys, it's just I am terribly lonely, that I am waiting for the day you come into my life, I feel like a sinner after I visited the cafe, but I admit it was a guilty pleasure *slap*

just come nowww!!! so that I don't to visit those unnecessary place ;_;
been miss youuu~

the butler cafe would be much better and become my faint factor if they have these guys *dies*

once more I am sorry dear my future husband kiss kiss :* :*


foodcourt Tunjungan Plaza, November 12th, 2012

나 헌자 :3
sitting alone in TP's foodcourt, while sometimes sips my gurin, listening to the music through my phone+headset, and write my accounting journal  (of my own money) and my activity for the past 1 week...

I was here , going to buy a cable, as my task as a financing staff at the koperasi syariah :3, and waiting for 3pm , when I am going to have my karaoke time with my ukhtiduel...

At first I was like dunno what to do, I was going to watch some movies, since I've got so many times, but I didn't find good movie and I think it's going to take so many times (? messed with time kkk). So I decided to go to the book store, and the smell of the new books, was like cheer me up,

I visited magazine corner, and then comic corner, and then the computer, I dunno I feel like going to read a marketing book *which I remember I want to have an internship in marketing department* but it seems like something popped out, I though I didn't find the company who wants me yet, so I think I won't read any marketing book, because the area wont be exact, is it management or education.

But one thing for sure, I feel like my decision to have an internship abroad and leave my school + my thesis for a while is correct, I feel like currently I feel so bored with my school, and leave it for a while to have a new experience and live in a new place with a so different environment, can make me a fresh new start.
So I was like , I couldn't wait no more, what makes me worry is , I didn't find the company yeeet ;_;...

I guess I have to try harder, to find it, and I was like visiting the language book corner, and something suddenly popped out,
How about tell the company that I say I can speak languages (maybe Japanese, Russian, French, etc) , but the basic I mean like the daily conv, since I found sooo many languages tutorial book, I can learn it by myself, like if there is a will, there is a way...

Yaay!!! I found a new spirit, everything is like so possible for me, Bismillah
Now I am on super excited mood, I dunno, maybe regarding those inspiration...
And I was like found a marketing book, yay! I learned marketing at school, so I guess I wont to lost about it,

Everything is just about your creativity,

Aaargh I am super excited , my heart is beating so fast, that I feel like going to fly :333

Oh yeaah, There was a magazine and there was an article about Korean star's honeymoon, and I was like kyaaaa!!! Kill me, there were photos, which made, I want have a honeymoon too with a good looking guy, which is going to be my husband *blush*

Random post sorry~

Oh yeah! Everything can come from a bookstore!!!
*wish : I want to have my own bookstore, to inspire more people kkk*

How about you?

image credits : google

Kyaaah I saw a Japanese guy, I though he works here or something, I wanna talk to him lol, but he was just pass with a man, seems like they took a break from their job, and going to have a lunch... ㅋㅋㅋ *random, sorry*


guide to summer school in South Korea : Inha University [2012년 여름 학교 : 인하 대학교]

lol, finally I am here
anticipating for many many question about my summer school experience earlier this year
I planned to post about it before, 
BUT yeaaah I use my laziness as an excuse ㅋㅋㅋ
but finally I am here, hoping that my blog gain more popularity :3

first of all, here is the web link of the university :
click click click!!!

I'll post according to frequently asked question:

Q1:   where did you find this opportunity?
A1:  hey, I frequently visit my university international office's page, for Airlangga University student click here [IOP's facebook page], I believe all universities out there have their own version of this office, I've heard one from ITS, UI, Undip and also UGM ^^, find it now!!! 

Q2:   when will the announcement of the summer school activity announced?
A2:   hmmm from my experience, the announcement out around March, so just check the Inha web link around that month ;)

Q3:   how much the cost for the summer school? is it expensive?
A3:  summer school program in inha university had two programs (but it might change every year), which is track A program and track B program, track A costed 550USD and track B costed 1000USD, hey! it's not expensive at all for a summer school, based on my researched it is the cheapest summer school program I knew, the other university costed around 2000USD or more :o

[the dorm entrance]

Q4:   do they provide us meal? accomodation?
A4:  of course!!! they provide us breakfast and dinner, but for lunch we have to buy a meal coupon *since my term where on Ramadhan, I never bought that meal coupon, I was fasting ._.v*, and for the accomodation, they provide us with a beautiful dorm room, it's for 4 person, and we had a television, fridge, microwave (each one in one floor), and they provide computer room (it's the place where my blog posts born when I was there ㅋㅋㅋ), and also fitness room, for you who want to maintain your hot body ffufffuffu ;;)

[the messy version of our room]

[I was just cleaned my errr...desk, wanted to show off ._.v]

[our meal xD]

and also! they picked us from airport to the dorm, since it's pretty far, but if you choose taxi it will cost around 50.000KRW yeah around 50USD... and when the program end, they will take us to the airport, just if you're not extend your stay :D

[the university garden]

Q5:   how was the payment?
A5:  okay the schedule are; the registration started and ended around April, and the payment ended around May, so, just collect your money from now, if you want to join the program, SAVE! SAVE!!! *hold yourself from cute clothes, and mouthwatering food for awhile mwihihi*

Q6:    how about the airplane fee?
A6:   [for Indonesian only] I use AirAsia-X services, I bought the tickets around May, it costed around 6million rupiah *include the baggage*, and from what I heard my friends used Garuda Indonesia services and it costed the same, with BETTER services *they provide meal, even blanket, and the best part NO TRANSIT* but they bought the ticket earlier, I guess it's around April or something.

Q7:   so the total cost is?
A7:   put it in 15million rupiah *hmmm, just use your allowance wisely ;;), everything in Korea are expensive in my opinion, except for make ups and K-POP cd albums ._.v*

Q8:    what was your acctivity?
A8:   SCHOOL!!! study!!! listen, feel, analyze!!! it's a new place and experience!!! socialize from other students from all around the world :D, and THE MOST IMPORTANT!!! spent your time FANGIRLING, if you lucky enough there are so many free concert *which you wont find in your home country*, xixixi *details I'll post it separately in other post*

[me in hanbok, during the experience Korean culture class]

[during the mask dance performance, on the korean culture class]

[with our lecturer]

Q9:     how was the weather?
A9:   it was summer baby, so it's totally hot there, if you live in Indonesia, ESPECIALLY Surabaya, probably it will be the same. But honestly, for end of July the weather won't be really hot, it was like '시원해', but in the early August it was extremely hot and dry, so prepare yourself *but fyi, I never miss fasting, except for the 'period' ._.v, and after the extreme hot weather, there will be like hard pouring rain, HARD! literally!!! I was upset, the rain is so extreme different with the rain in Indonesia, no wonder that Korean collects cute rainboots

Q10:   how did you get your VISA?
A10:  VISA, hmmm extremely important, you couldn't visit Korea if you don't have this, event you had your airplane tix, etc. 

[for Surabaya] the travel agent helped me, I was helped by 'Titian Ivan travel agent located in Kendangsari, [CLICK]' it costed around 500k rupiah. 
you need to provide:
1. your parents permission letter [case for me, even I am not an underage, I need this]
2. letter from your parents workplaces, stated that they work there, but it's fine of you're parents retired already
3. if your parents runs a business, you need to provide the SIUP and NPWP
4. your parents bank account copy *to prove that they able help you financially*
5. a certain size of photo *the size is very important, if it's not match, the embassy may reject your application*

misc: since I attended summer school, I also provide the letter from Inha *which they will mail you* and the statement that you're still a student in your university *you may ask it from the academic of your faculty*, I also attached my flight booking paper *to reinforce my arrival and my departure time*.

[the course choice, pick one elective course only]

- the school starts at 9 a.m and ends at 4 p.m, after that you're free, wherever you wanna go, but the dorm closed at 12 p.m *I was locked outside once, read my experience here : CLICK*
- the transportations there are so easy there are buses and subways, you can go anywhere
- Inha university is located in Incheon not in Seoul, in takes like about 1hour to Seoul by subways
- just bring the subway map everywhere and you won't get lost
- inha also provide us with fieldtrip yey!!! *to certain places, might change* 

[during our fieldtrip to Incheon Harbour]

[during fieldtrip to Nanta, AMAZING PERFORMANCE!!!]

*if there are future questions ^^*


confession of shopaholic in my point of view

so today, I had my 'rest day' since I suffered from a bad stomachache which I don't know why...
and I prevent myself from touch my laptop which may takes me to another long-time surf which will make me couldn't rest on my bed

so I came up with pick some DVDs to watch, which I usually just buys the DVDs and put it on my desks without watch it like for a years or more, since I'd rather get socialize; hang out with friends and family or simply have a conversation or make a jokes on a social-network, than spare like one an a half until two hours watching movies.

so the point is I am no a movieholic, boring movies would makes me sleep, 
but it just came up today, which I want to watch this movie 'Confession of Shopaholic'

lame choice? yeaaah this movie is like so 3 years ago, which I bet almost everyone especially who loves fashion or get dressed up have watched this movie, except me ~

than I am surprised that I got many values from this movie, which I'll share here,
SO HERE IS MY POINT OF VIEW for 'Confession of a Shopaholic' Movie 


Look at Rebecca she was unintentionally send a an article which made her accepted in 'Successful Saving' magazine, when she was actually going to send it for 'Alette' magazine which is a fashion magazine, and the worst, she have no clue about economic, investment, etc, which is 'Successful Saving' about. But she adapted well and she did it in her own way, which makes her glows and famous. 

So the lesson is wherever you are, especially in a new place the essential thing to survive is to adapt well and have an ability to read the situation, I guess it's okay to accept a new challenge as long as you kept the key 'ability to adapt in a new places and a different condition from how you usually live', if we can pass through it, possibly we will be more success than where we think we should belong to, cause we have our own formula.

Don't spend something when you have nothing, I mean look! Rebecca stuck in a terrible debt, and it lead her to many troubles, which risks her ownlife, her friendship and her lovelife. 
It goes with anything I mean, for example if you have no time to relax, I mean when you have something to do and the worst it is related to deadline or something, then don't spend your time having fun. 

AND DON'T BUY A DRESS IF YOU HAVE NO MONEY, it will risk your friendship even your sisterhood


Family is your home, wherever you are.
when the world seems ignore her (Rebecca) her parents are always there for her :')
I understand that, other families would be different, but look at the bright side, family is not always someone who give you a birth or place where you raised, it can be anyone, it can be a girl which sit beside you in classes, it can be a man which helped you with your job, it can be the kid who sells a newspaper on the street, anyone can be your family, just ask your heart, where is the place you want to go the most when you're so tired and wasted. I believe everyone had at least one.


learning foreign languages is necesary!!!
see how Rebecca pretend that she mastered Finnish, when she don't, and in the end she really learn Finnish.

yeay! I realised that learning foreign languages is so important, someone who lives in English-speaking world would be so lucky, since they had the most essential languages in the world. And I am glad I am able to use English as my 3rd languages (?), though I couldn't brag that I am excellent on it *see how I messed with grammars*

and currently I am studying Korean, which I hope it will be as good as my English~ so I can use it for any purposes, especially my career
but I am also want to learn Japanesse, Arabic anda French so bad, kyaaa~ I hope I have enough time to learn all of that, I am getting obsessed

IMO, by learning foreign languages it will open our door to interact with people from other countries, which is good, it will gives us a new perspectives ;)


Luke Brandon is hot, yeaaah, a cold but sweet guy who understand us and able to read our heart, who got a good fashion sense is hot. <(♥v♥)>


British accent is always sexy *I love how Luke Brandon speaks*

but still he had the cutest Britsih accent ever
yeah it is AJ from U-KISS♥♥♥

credits goes to mysoonjjang @youtube


it's cool to live as a New Yorker and strolling around the streets in a mode, work in a prestigious company with a fabulous interior design, and smell the office *hah! I know it's not that simple, but I want it...someday*


yeah but everyone could have their own point of view, like Rebecca *the playful type* vs Alicia *the classy type*, both pull out the different style in a fashion, but both are awesome

Enjoy your live ... YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE! but please stay in line, don't hurt anyone... Life has it rules, I know, I don't try to be naive, life is hard we have to survive from any distraction... but please be nice


it's a wrap
*caps may update soon*
so how do you think? any objection
or any other movie suggestion, in case I have to stay at home all day long~

just put some comment